Sexual violence

I will like it if you can be stunned into weakness for me, when I can shove you into a wall, a hand around your throat and threaten you and have you believe it (crossing that line between knowing that you can stop it any time you want and that tipping over point where the attack makes your brain stutter and your body go ‘wtf?!’). If I am aggressively fucking with you, I need to … Continue Reading

Loves: 10
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4 hours…

Our first phone call tasted like intimacy.

He was a little freaked out beforehand, worried about awkward silences.

Instead, it flowed easily, warm and affectionate.

He joked that I would blog about his ‘girlish voice’ after I mused that his voice was not quite how I expected it to be (see how this works, e? You joke about it, and I am almost certain to mention it… and yes, I shall expect jokes about your … Continue Reading

Loves: 1
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Responding to emails – the other side

We hear submissive men say fairly frequently that dominant women do not respond to their emails, or ‘disappear’ after a few back and forths (I put ‘disappear’ in quotes because all it really means is that they stopped responding).

I just want to point out, for the record, that quite often submissive men do not respond to emails that I send them either, or sometimes they simply stop replying when we have some sort of … Continue Reading

Loves: 1
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Are you ready yet?

Yes, yes I am…

Fucking LOVE!!… Continue Reading

Loves: 4
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My sent emails XXVIII

Hello e,

You are exemplary with the one line hotness… Sometimes, my eyes read something and it goes straight to my cunt.

I was going to make lunch, masturbated instead.

You featured heavily.

Ferns… Continue Reading

Loves: 3
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Emperor’s new clothes

I’m not naked! I have a new outfit on… see, see?!

It is home made, and constructed out of tissue paper and crimpolene, and scares the hell out of me.

I moved the blog when you weren’t looking, with the long suffering help of the wonderfully smart PhoenixFox on Fetlife who kindly volunteered to interpret my blatherings and sort me out (a million more thank yous!!).  PhoenixFox runs a business doing this sort of thing, … Continue Reading

Loves: 2
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Shhh… no telling

I am a little cautious about cautiously mentioning in a tentatively cautious way that the ‘interesting man who I am enchanting’ mentioned here (that was his description, by the way, after noting that he had been referred to as ‘someone’) is turning out to be quite the thing.

It is a little dangerous to poke a stick at it here when it is such early days and may yet peter out, but it is hugely … Continue Reading

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