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A few weeks ago, I received an email on CM from a local switch whose profile included the fact that he “leans towards the dominant side”. Despite it clearly being a form letter that may as well have been addressed to “Dear Recipient”, it had a line in it that made me laugh, and I was curious enough to respond with more than just a ‘no thanks’. I asked him why a switch with primarily dominant tendencies would be contacting a dominant woman, and suggested that perhaps he would be better off with a submissive who

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My sent emails XIV

Yeah, I know my pictures are teh hot and sexy.

Oh wait.

I don’t have any.

How very puzzling.

I am sure you couldn’t possibly be such an idiot that you send random bulk messages out to anyone who identifies as female and dominant. That would mean you were a wanker looking for someone to tell you how to wank.

Ok, here you go, I will help you out.

Get on your cam, open it up to the world at large and wank until your cock bleeds. Oh what fun!

Ferns

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What does a submissive bring to the party?

When I play, my submissive doesn’t get to just be the passive recipient of my attention. For me there is a feedback loop between my submissive and me that either works or doesn’t. It can’t be faked, it is part of D/s ‘chemistry’ for me, maybe others call it connection or intimacy or some such, but for me it is a combination of indefinable things. He feeds me with his honest and open reactions (lust, fear, pain, hurt, desire, embarrassment…), he reaches in and gives of himself, and I take it greedily and transform it into something else and point … Continue Reading

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From outside

I watch him hurting and I can’t fix it.

Sometimes I make it worse with a thoughtless comment or a passing throwaway that cuts him, I don’t even realise I have pierced his skin until I see the blood seeping quietly from the wound, until I see him backing slowly away from me. He retires to a corner to lick it, silently curled up into himself, I imagine an accusatory look being thrown my way from his periphery. There is nothing I can do to help, which is a different kind of hurt, a selfish kind maybe, I don’t know.… Continue Reading

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e[lust] #24

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Suede and patent leather

Black suede with patent leather features and plus… zips! Why are completely useless zips sexy? I don’t know, they just are. You can’t see in the photo, but they also have a patent leather ribboned piece running up the back seam… *happy sigh*

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My sent emails XIII

I mentioned this dilemma a little while ago, so… :

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Hello InterestingManWhoMightNeedaCuteNickIfThisGoesAnywhere,

[…stuff…]

I am not sure how much you have read of my blog so far, but I want you to stop reading it. I think the blog contains TMI for someone I am getting to know. I assume that request is not too difficult?

[…more stuff…]

Ferns

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