I have been having some discussions recently about specific things that could be interpreted either as testing trust or exercising control. The act is the same, the intent is not.
If you are exerting control because you don’t trust your partner, you have a problem.
Let me say it again…
If you are exerting control because you don’t trust your partner, you have a problem.
Not a little one either, a big huge gigantic problem.… Continue Reading
No no… not *that* kind… *this* kind…
Anyone want to come for a ride? I’m an excellent driver… of course I don’t have my underwear…
… Continue ReadingAt work, a colleague and I are preparing for a meeting…
Him: Can I go and get a coffee?
Me: *laugh* No.
Him: *disappointed look* Oh… really?
Me: No.
Him: *puppy face* Ok.
Sometimes, work is fun.
… Continue ReadingI found these rich burgundy leather summer wedges deep in my wardrobe. Yesterday, I wore them to a munch, my first in *mumble* years…
He makes me fresh fruit and vegetable juice in the morning with apples, oranges, celery, zuchinni, beetroot, carrot, pear, ginger…
He cooks fabulous dinners with fresh ingredients… bœuf bourguignon, home made pizza, lamb shanks in red wine, cauliflower and asparagus soup…
He takes out the garbage, puts the bins out on the curb, takes them back in.
He offers chauffeuring… lifts to work, pick up from the train station, errands.
He entertains my sister when … Continue Reading
Since finding myself single, I have worried a little about how this blog will influence the impression potential submissives have of me. It is not that this is not the ‘real me’, and in fact one of the loveliest compliments I received from my boy was ‘you are exactly how you come across in your writing’… I am gratified by that, a little relieved to know that I didn’t create this ‘persona’ for myself, happy … Continue Reading
I have had, largely, a bad year… that is dramatic and ‘woe is me-ish’, but it’s true nevertheless. Some of it I have shared here, some of it I haven’t because, frankly, whining and carrying on is no fun… mostly it is not interesting to write about and I have no doubt that it is not interesting to read about.
I use this blog as a way to take a moment out of the mundane … Continue Reading
