play/ tom Saying no November 4, 2010 13 CommentsAt work, a colleague and I are preparing for a meeting…Him: Can I go and get a coffee?Me: *laugh* No.Him: *disappointed look* Oh… really?Me: No.Him: *puppy face* Ok.Sometimes, work is fun.Rate this item:1.00Submit Rating Loves: 2Please wait...// MY FEMDOM BOOKS // Next Post Previous PostYou may also like January 8, 2009 This kiss August 26, 2010 The brilliance November 9, 2011 Red hot poker13 CommentsSo… just to provoke some reflection… why do you think he was ASKING you instead of just telling you he'll be back soon?Nothing to do with you… the natural atmosphere you create is it?ReplyAnonymous: “…why do you think he was ASKING you instead of just telling you he'll be back soon?”I would *love* to say that I am 'das uber Domme' and that I bring this out in men, but there were a some work-related reasons (seniority and experience for example) that would have influenced it… and yet… I found the 'asking for permission' thing slightly odd and terribly sweet.“Nothing to do with you… the natural atmosphere you create is it?”laugh Again, I would love to play up my 'uber Dommeliness', and I do think it was about respect and authority, but probably just as much work related as personality related.FernsReplyI hope you wear all black leather to say NO! it's part of the Domme code you knowCougReplyModesty does not become you.ReplyCoug: “I hope you wear all black leather to say NO! it's part of the Domme code you know”Oh! Silly me! Of course, I left that bit out… after he asked if he could have coffee, I quickly went and changed into my leathers, got my flogger, then came back and said “No!”.Oh wait… no… I was already wearing it… I always do you know. Even in the shower…FernsReplyAnonymous: “Modesty does not become you.”It's not modesty, just truth and musing. Perhaps truth doesn't become me.FernsReplyD/s flirting can be so hot!Just imagine his face the next time you walk by his cube/office, notice that he has a cup of coffee, and you tell him “I don't recall you asking permission to get that!”*grin*DymionReplyHah! Fun. Especially in a setting like that.Reply“I quickly went and changed into my leathers, got my flogger, then came back and said “No!”.… Or did he just happen notice you were wearing the secret decoder ring?ReplyDymion: “D/s flirting can be so hot!”Yes!“Just imagine…you tell him “I don't recall you asking permission to get that!””*chuckle* That would have been fun, yes.FernsReplysuggestivetongue: “Hah! Fun. Especially in a setting like that.”*nod nod* It totally brightened my day!FernsReplyslapshot: “Or did he just happen notice you were wearing the secret decoder ring?”Maybe *that* was it! Yes! That must have been it…*waves decoder ring around indiscriminately*FernsReply“Oh wait… no… I was already wearing it… I always do you know. Even in the shower…”We all do all the time and full make up – nod nods –CougReplyLeave a Reply Cancel replyYour email address will not be published.CommentName Email Website Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Notify me of follow-up comments by email.