Top 100 Sex Blogs 2016: Number 1!

 Holy hell! The fabulous Molly from Molly’s Daily Kiss (with whom I did a really fun interview a while ago) does a gazillion hours of work to compile her annual Top 100 Sex Blogs list from those that readers nominate as their favourites. And shock of shockers, I am in the top spot this year! The. Top. Spot!!! *faints* I’m so completely delighted and honoured. […]

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Top 100 Sex Blogs 2015: Top ten, baby!

This year the fabulous Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss took on the monumental task of putting together the Top 100 Sex Blogs list for 2015. I’m beyond thrilled to be in the top ten. TOP TEN! I may have squeed. In the tradition of all respectable awards, I want to take a moment to say thank you to everyone who reads my blog; […]

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I’m on Molly’s 20 of 2015!

Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss is a wonderful blogger and photographer who you may not be so familiar with because she’s in a M/f relationship and writes from that perspective (this is the only reason why she’s not on my blog roll: not because she isn’t fabulous, but because I specifically keep that for F/m orientated blogs). […]

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Superheroes!

I was looking up minor comic super heroes the other day and came across some (lots!) I’d never heard of. A few of the best ones (and by ‘best’ I mean ‘lamest super heroes EVARRR’!!): Stone Boy His super power is *turning himself into stone*. “Gadzooks, someone is being MURDERED!!! Let me help you!!! LOOK, SUDDENLY I’M A ROCK!! HA HA! […]

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First lesbian love

My first love was a woman, well, a girl really. I was 17, she was a year ahead of me at school. She was fun and hilarious and street-smart in a way I wasn’t. An athlete, with that long-limbed lithe body that young athletes have. Full of that kind of careless body confidence that comes from knowing what those limbs and muscles are capable of, […]

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e[lust] #46

I’m delighted to be one of this month’s ‘Featured Posts’, chosen by e[lust]’s fabulous editor, Molly. Thank you! Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. […]

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Because you are so beautiful

I was punching him over and over again: his face alternatively screwed up with pain, mouth open in a silent yell, then stoic against the hurt, completely closing down, trying to get control back. His body thrashed violently against the restraints at the peak of each wave until I could no longer aim the strike and had to stop. He was so fucking pretty when he was like this: not thinking, […]

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Honesty sometimes feels like manipulation

Sometimes it’s hard to be honest without feeling manipulative. Sometimes I know what the outcome of honesty is going to be, so it feels like I am manoeuvring that outcome by *being* honest. That can be a hard mindset to let go of. I suspect that more submissives have experienced this dilemma than dominants. Submissive [honest statement]: “I really like it when you just tell me what to do without asking me.” *cue your dominant doing that more* *you feel vaguely guilty, […]

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Compromise in D/s relationships

I talked in my Masocast interview with the lovely UnspeakableAxe about compromising away happiness, and I’ve had a few private conversations about it since then, so I thought it was worth expanding on. A lot of people seem to start relationships with “Oh, that’s okay, it’s not that important to me” and end up with “What the holy fuck happened here?” There is always compromise in relationships, […]

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Drawing out hurt

“Hands behind your head.” You comply quickly, and you wait. “We’re going to do something that we’ve done before, can you guess?” I ask, smiling. We are new together, there aren’t that many choices. “No Ma’am,” you reply quickly. You are nervous. “The pegs,” I grin at you.  You make a face at me, screw up your nose, your lip curls. […]

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