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I don’t think of myself as harsh or rude or any of those things.
Honest, yes (but not the ‘I’m just being honest’ type of brutality that people use to justify being an arsehole).
Forthright, you bet.
Sometimes impatient, sure.
Easily irritated (with strangers at least), yep.
But harsh? I tend(ed) to think not.
I had an exchange on a BDSM dating site the other day that both made me laugh and made me wonder if I AM harsh. I responded in an exasperated way to someone who replied to me with a terrible cliche. In my mind, I was … Continue Reading
Along with “He never talks about her the way he talked about me” and “He never treats her the way he treated me”.
All thoughts bound up in love and nostalgia and memories.
But mostly, in those moments of brutal honesty, I know it’s pure ego with more than a touch of smug satisfaction. I touched those intimate parts of him, they are marked, and they are forever mine. Truly mine. And no-one else can have them.