New year’s eve

I have hated new year’s eve for as long as I can remember.

The crowds, the desperate reaching for fun-times, the drunkenness, the random groping by strangers, the forced joie de vivre, the alcohol-fuelled ‘gis-a-kiss’ demands, the paniced avoidance of strangers’ grabby-handed slobbering on the stroke of midnight. I hated it all.

But it was a ‘thing’ for young people. A big thing. So I tried. Year after year I tried and each time I’d … Continue Reading

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Baby: Audio

This is what I sound like when I am slightly drunk, when I am writing and suddenly typing seems like too much trouble so I decide on audio instead, when I am languid and lounging on the couch, a slight slurring, almost in too much stupor to force the words past my lips…

I suspect this is similar to how I sound after sex.


I like the pet name ‘baby’.

It’s not because I … Continue Reading

Loves: 22
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Top 100 sex bloggers… twice!

Did I mention that I’m in the top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes list and the Top 100 Sex Blogs list?


Consider it mentioned… *smile*.

Click the images to see the full lists of awesome sex bloggers:


Thank you so much to those of you who nominated and/or voted for me. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it!

*toot toot* <= me tooting my own horn…… Continue Reading

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Careless words

I read a post on The Drew Duality that stirred up a flurry of tiny memories.

Drew had a bad night with his partner, not because of some huge fight, but because of a couple of exchanges where his partner hurt him unintentionally.

It’s a post about expectations and saying the wrong thing.

We all have our moments of ‘wrong responses’ to things, and have all been on the receiving end of them also. And … Continue Reading

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Things that make me laugh

Me on twitter:


In my inbox shortly afterwards:


*laughs* So good!! LOVE!

Thank you, SD :D.… Continue Reading

Loves: 5
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My first crush

I was tiny, a child, maybe 3 or 4 years old. I don’t know.

His name was Johnny. He was not a child. He was a grown man, the son of one of my parents friends. I have no idea how old he was, but he wasn’t an ‘older boy’, he was a proper grown up.

He was a in the navy, I must have seen in him in his uniform at least once. I … Continue Reading

Loves: 9
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Reader Q&A: Non-romantic D/s, erotica, damage

It’s December. I have just returned from 5 days up in the mountains with family. I have just invited family to stay with me for 3 or 4 days. Then I will spend Christmas day with family.

I love them dearly, but this time of year sucks my very limited social energy up like a huge black hole of suckiness.

Thank you to those who popped a question on my Asks page: you are … Continue Reading

Loves: 3
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