e[lust] #50

I’m delighted to be the reader’s choice in this month’s elust with ‘First lesbian love‘. Yay!

Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #51? Start with the newly updated rules, come back October 1st … Continue Reading

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Back shot

Do you know how hard it is to show off back muscles? Yeah, really hard.

Still, I managed it by pretending to do lat pullups on some outdoor equipment in the park.

So, RAAWWWRRRR!!!… Continue Reading

Loves: 31
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Reader Q&A: G-spot orgasms & sweetness

A while ago you posted on your experience trying a G-Spot orgasm. And it sounded like you enjoyed it a lot and wanted to explore some more. Have you? Has it become a regular part of your routine?

I did!! And I do want to explore some more. But fuck, I’m a lazy wanker. Literally. I just want to get off and go.

It’s on my to-do list:

“Wank more and better.”

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Loves: 4
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Crowdsourcing my book title

I’m kind of stuck and could use some creative help.

Like every other blogger in the entire world who fancies themselves a writerly type (i.e. all of us!), I’m putting together a book.

It’s an erotica anthology comprised of true-life vignettes about female dominant/male submissive play: passion, violence, sweetness, affection, love.

If you’re familiar with the way I write, you will know exactly the sort of thing I mean (if not, here’s an example: Good Continue Reading

Loves: 7
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Reader Q&A: Myers-Briggs (spoiler: INFJ)

Have you ever taken the Meyers Brigs Personality Inventory, and if so, what was your type beyond being introverted?

I have. I did it as part of a serious exercise in something-or-other at work way back when, and have since done it again online for curiosity’s sake with the same result.

I’m an INFJ.
Introvert(78%) iNtuitive(25%) Feeling(25%) Judging(33%)

When I first did the test forever ago, I found great relief in the ‘introvert’ descriptor because … Continue Reading

Loves: 9
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Dommes get rejected too

This is not a ‘poor me’ post, just a ‘hey, it goes both ways you know!’ post.

I know that the impression is pretty much always that a Domme puts an ad out and then weeds out those who don’t suit her.

But don’t forget that it goes both ways.

Anyone who approaches me (or who I approach for that matter) has the equal ability and right and responsibility to reject me at any time … Continue Reading

Loves: 20
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Shameless blog whoring (again!)

I do this every year, because I HAVE NO SHAME. None. Zero. Shameless.

I’ve been in the Top 100 Sex Bloggers list for the last three years. Aw yeah I have!

But it’s not enough. IT’S NEVER ENOUGH!!

Because I am a greedy attention whore.

If you like my blog, if you read it every now and then, or if you read it obsessively like an obsessed reader-thing (thank you so much!!), if you get … Continue Reading

Loves: 8
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