I answered a three part question on Fetlife about the sexual power of male submissives.
Does he have any sexual power? Should he?
Oh fuck yes!
Is what he has granted to him by his dominant?
[WTF?!] No, he has it because that’s part of who he is, and he brings it to me, all the smouldering, passionate, scorching-hot, barely-contained sexual power. He has it whether I ever met him or not.
Some of the incredibly and impossibly sweet ones seem to be completely unaware that they have it. I adore that also, that wide eyed naivety. I love seeing them learn and grow into an understanding of their own sexual power.
His sexual power is largely in making me both weak and crazy-aggressive with want.
How can he exercise it (if he has it)?
For me, seduction is huge, for him to play with ways of morphing that sexual power into something that I MUST HAVE right now.
I want to see his desire and passion, I want him to learn what makes me look at him ‘that way’, what twitch of his hips turns me on, which subtle signals make my mouth ache, what expression on his face makes me want to tear the skin off his bones. My submissive has to learn how to make himself prey to my predator.
It may sound like subjugating his sexual power, but to me it’s a way of exercising it.