musing YDIW January 23, 2012 14 CommentsYou’re Doin’ It Wrong…!!YDIW in BDSMers… can be treated and cured through the application of “NO ONE GIVES A FUCK WHAT YOU THINK, ASSHOLE.” It should be applied liberally whenever YDIW flares up.—Dan SavageSee also “You iz doin’ it wrong“Rate this item:1.00Submit Rating Click to show some lovePlease wait...// MY FEMDOM BOOKS // Next Post Previous PostYou may also like September 7, 2012 Look, pussies! March 13, 2010 Broken wing June 17, 2014 PSA: Some dominants are arseholes14 CommentsI saw that column the other day, seemed poignant recently, though I can’t for the life of me remember why. *whistles innocently*Reply*laugh* I had reason to send that to a friend who was letting idiotic strangers on the internet make her feel bad.It makes me laugh every time I read it.FernsReplylol I like itCougbut YDIW if you spell arse ass surely?ReplyNO ONE GIVES A FUCK WHAT YOU THINK, ASSHOLE.Heh.Just practising. It needs at least one exclamation mark!And also, Americans spell funny…FernsReplyBut what if you are doing it RIGHT? ;)ReplyWell everyone knows that the only one who is doing it right is me, so if you aren’t doing it just like me, YDIW!FernsReplyPish-posh. There is no way that Mistress Ferns, as an example can possibly know how to brat correctly. Being a meanie female Domme such considerations don’t enter your purview.I suppose you might be right about how you always do it correctly when talking about things like submission for male subs and canes and anal play and such. Unimportant things like that ;)Reply“There is no way that Mistress Ferns, as an example can possibly know how to brat correctly.”*laugh* You don’t think so? Oh, at least some part of me is the perfect Domme-brat.FernsAnd now, “The Ferns” sees me. I took this pic the very first time that I was testing my webcam. Even though its sloppy, people tell me I look mischievous so I keep it.Reply*waves* Hello Clarence-brat!!Thank you for the peek… You don’t look so bratty…you look sweet and ready to do exactly as you’re told. *pat pat*FernsReply*Squirms happily*Ok, I admit a weakness for being patted. It has happened rarely in my life.I suppose it might be possible to behave sometimes.Reply*smile* Well, you can come by for pats anytime.“I suppose it might be possible to behave sometimes.”Of course! I never doubted it.FernsThat’s not just the best answer. It’s the bestest answer!I really want to say how much I dislike Dan Savage, but I feel that that kind of negativity isn’t warranted in a comment on your blog.So instead, I’ll just say that *this time*, Dan Savage is right.ReplyLeave a Reply Cancel replyYour email address will not be published.CommentName Email Website Notify me of follow-up comments by email.