User names and you…

User names are like a signature on the internet or in the community. I figure if you chose it, you did so to specifically and unequivocally communicate something about yourself.

That being the case, many are a complete turn off for me.

If a submale has a user name that communicates an icky message, he is going to have to work *extra* hard to make me believe he’s actually an intelligent, thinking human being.

I recognise that many of these men with really bad nicknames ARE intelligent, thinking human beings. I know because I have spoken to them, but I … Continue Reading

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My sent emails XXV

Hello subsomebody,

Four words with no capitalisation, no punctuation, and an inability to spell the word ‘you’. The laziness and lack of care hurts my brain.

Ferns

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Fuck yeah!

I save D/s images that I find and fall a little in love with… Mostly the ones I love are terribly romantic, and I don’t normally share them, but this one was so perfectly lovely that I couldn’t resist going “Look… LOOK!!!”

 

I found it on the fabulous Fuck Yeah Male Submission!tumblr.

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Scammers come in different flavours

So you got contacted by an uber hottie… whoo hoo!! She’s from your home town and she is super keen on you and thinks you are special… that’s so awesome!! She wants to claim you as her slave… yesss!!! You’ve been talking for a couple of weeks… it’s going great! She seems to be moving really fast, but ok, that’s fine… good even! And she hasn’t asked you for money so SHUT UP FERNS!!

There are scammers who will invest in you if they are after more than the few dollars they can get from having you join some BDSM … Continue Reading

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On frantic writing

“Giving yourself permission to write horribly is a really liberating process.”
– Chris Baty (founder of NaNoWriMo)

With that in mind, I am taking part in National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) in November, along with *every other blogger in the world who thinks they have a novel in them* (that’s ALL of us, you realise that, right?).

The objective of NaNo (see, how I am shortening it, like I am one of the cool kids?!) is to write 50,000 words in the 30 days of November; that’s 1667 words a day. The goal is to write quantity, not quality… to … Continue Reading

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Breasts

“… women are more likely to watch a video if it features a hot guy…”

Oh, come on… what sort of shallow, superficial people do you think we… oh… um… shhhhh… watching…

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Happy femdom stories – tim

This sweet story arrived in my inbox from a fellow Australian. He thought it may be ‘too mild’, but it sooo is not… This is the kind of story that we often don’t see or hear about because those involved live their lives quietly, perhaps having a presence on kink sites, but not looking for anything more, not participating, just quietly reading and living their lives. It’s just a lovely, warm story. Thank you, tim.

Author: tim from Victoria

My wife and I met 15 years ago in a non kink environment. She’s naturally dominant and I’m the reverse. We … Continue Reading

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