I adore the ‘men as sex objects’ thing.
One of the things I love most about treating men as sex objects is that it actually gives those who maybe are a little shy or even too ‘manly’ to admit that they love that attention a different way of looking at themselves, a different level of confidence. They walk around in the world a little more aware of themselves as desirable sexual ‘things’, which often attracts (both kinky and non-kinky) women to them.
I love that once a boy who has piqued my interest ‘gets’ that I see him that way, he works to attract that attention from me (wants to improve his body, thinks more about what he is wearing, presents himself to me as a sexual being… delicious!). My seeing him as eye candy, as a plaything, as something that makes me wet, that can make me come, that can give me pleasure makes him preen and posture a little, gives him confidence to tease me with his sexuality, to entice me with his goods. It is even better if he has never seen himself that way, for him to realise that he has that power, for him to want to exercise it for me. And it is not about his cock, not about him turning himself on, not about him getting off, it is about him objectifying himself to work me into a lust-frenzy, it is about him offering himself as an object of desire, encouraging me to look at him that way, to treat him that way, to take him that way.
I look at my boy greedily sometimes, he may be undressed, or partially undressed, pottering about when I start looking at him as a sex thing, when my mind starts skipping tracks and goes straight to ‘Guh’. He knows when I am doing it and I see him shyly change under that gaze. He rarely knows his power, really, but occasionally, he knows it fully and well, and he blossoms under that knowledge. He will give me a look that says ‘I *know* what you are thinking, here it is, come and get it…’, and he will pose a little and silently offer this thing that he is to me, however I want it.
I also have to admit to enjoying the objectification of men in mainstream media…
~Warning: This video has absolutely no redeeming qualities and is provided solely for nefarious purposes… it is a travesty to fair minded people everywhere. Meh… I’m totally okay with that…~