Happy femdom stories – Anonymous

I asked for happy femdom relationship stories, and I’m excited to say that this is the first of them.

This is the email that started my day out with a smile yesterday, and prompted my call out for more fabulous positive femdom relationship stories. I am delighted that the sender has given me permission to share it!  Thank you!

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Author: Anonymous

I’ve been following your blog for awhile now, and I see so much of myself in you. But I used to feel so much envy when you would describe your past relationship with your boy, and I would … Continue Reading

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Wanted: Happy femdom stories!

I received an email this morning, a happy-making email from a young Domme who has found her boy, is happy, in love, and bursting with joy.

Oh. My. God. Lovely!!!!

You know what?

I want more of these stories, I want to post them on my blog, I want readers to see that it happens, that it can work, that people are happily living in some kind of femdom relationship that doesn’t involve her being a cranky bitch and wearing latex and stilettos 24/7 or him concentrating on being as worthless as possible at all times.

Any stories are fine, … Continue Reading

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Punishment

My D/s relationships include punishment. Not ‘funishment’ which is playing at punishment for fun (“Naughty boy!” *giggle* Thwak! etc), but punishment… a penalty for getting something wrong.

Punish
–verb (used with object)

  1. to subject to pain, loss, confinement, death, etc., as a penalty for some offense, transgression, or fault: to punish a criminal.
  2. to inflict a penalty for (an offense, fault, etc.): to punish theft.

Ok… not death, obviously (did that need saying? Of course it did!), and I don’t use corporal punishment because that’s too close to play for me. I mostly make him do boring, tedious tasks that … Continue Reading

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You iz doin’ it wrong!

There are a gazillion ways to do it, to have aspects of dominance and submission (D/s) in your life and in your relationship. Each is so different that you may as well be talking apples and gorillas when you discuss it with people with whom you allegedly have a fundamental commonality.

Mine is a very specific type of D/s. It is a romantic relationship with all that that entails in the vanilla world, but I am the dominant partner in all aspects of the relationship.  At its simplest, that means that I have the final say in things that involve … Continue Reading

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