Submission or…?

I often hear people describe behaviours that they consider to be indicative of a great submissive, but when I think about it for a moment, they often aren’t.  What they are describing is often the behaviour of a wonderful, quality man. Perhaps a man in love, or in lust, or infatuated, or one who is trying to impress a date or one who is simply one of those lovely creatures who likes doing things for a woman he enjoys and respects.

How is it that ‘doing things for someone to make them happy’ is suddenly submission and not the pretty … Continue Reading

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Man wears dress

Oh. Hell. Yes.

Guh.

*drool… groan*

I honestly cannot… CANNOT explain why this shit is hot to me. Brad Pitt… meh. Man in a dress… meh.

This man rockin’ these dresses in this way… Oh. Fuck. Yes!!!

I mean… fuck!!! Right?

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Happy femdom stories – Dani

This lovely story arrived in my inbox from Dani all quiet-like and sweet… thank you so much!

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Author: Dani

This story starts about 3 years ago. I had just left an abusive relationship, and had moved to a new city. I had a few friends there, but still felt alone. After dating a bit, I decided on a whim to put up an ad on craigslist (I would not reccommend this to anyone – there’s a reason dating sites exist, after all).

My email blew up with responses. Mind you, it was a vanilla ad for companionship. I had … Continue Reading

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Spider silk

I think of D/s flirting sometimes like throwing spiderweb silk in his direction, and these delicate filaments stick to him, sometimes inadvertently, perhaps he doesn’t even realise that this light gossamer thread has even landed on him, much less that it has attached itself. But sometimes, he sees it clearly, will catch it, examine it, tiny and harmless, then look me directly in the eye and deliberately stick it to himself (see, that image there is incredibly hot to me… *swoon*).

And then he flings one back at me, this light and whisper-thin silk, and I may play with … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom stories – Durga

This wonderful story arrived in my inbox with little preamble. Durga said she and her darling (I love how she refers to him!) keep a low profile for professional reasons, so she doesn’t get to tell her story often… I am delighted that she chose to share it here. Welcome to her self described ‘kinky love story’.

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Author: Durga

After I “came out” in 2007, I had dated several men off of Alt.com and one from FetLife, but hadn’t had the best of luck. About two years ago, a friend forwarded me an exquisitely-written ad from – of all … Continue Reading

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My sent emails XXIII

Hello lazy_boy,

Good thanks, but not looking for a submissive, nor looking to exchange emails with someone who can’t be bothered to check their minimalist note for errors.

If you are going to contact random women here, please spell check, type out full words, use proper sentences with punctuation, and really, you might want to write their name correctly… Mine is only five letters, how hard is it?!

Ferns

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Happy femdom stories – Maggie

You didn’t think we were done with the happy stories did you? Oh hell no!!

Maggie has generously shared her truly lovely story, thank you for it! *happy sigh*

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Author: Maggie

It was a social site. I was a not so innocent, kinky vanilla gal. One year post divorce and no interest in anything more then a bit of frivolity and fun. He sent a witty message, focusing on my openness and sense of adventure. I was intrigued. A lot of interesting conversations as we tipped toed around the real truth. But little bits still managed to slipped out. … Continue Reading

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