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Reader Q&A
I have been really slack with sharing the Q&A here.
In case you’ve forgotten, over on the Ask me page, you can ask me questions (see how intuitive that is?!). You can also see what I’ve been saying to anonymous peeps and be totally impressed, or maybe outraged. WHO KNOWS?!
There are quite a few over there now. Here’s some of them.
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Hey Ferns,
Just wanted to let you know that my crush on … Continue Reading
Present
I bought him a present for Christmas.
It arrived at his house after he left on his travels and getting it to him had been an issue.
He finally got it today.
He sent me nearly 20 photos of him opening it: He knows I like to see his face. They start off incredibly silly and the tenor of them changes as he opens the package, the box, the bag, and then when he puts … Continue Reading
Works for me
There is a thing he does that works for me, and interestingly, it is most evident when I mention something that is *not* working. Then he gets a little frustration with himself for not being/saying/doing what I want, and he reaches for it, wanting to understand what happened. He turns it over in his head and worries at it. His desire to unravel it and get it right is like a solid thing between us, … Continue Reading
The beauty of submissive men
What do you get a Domme for her birthday?!
It’s a dilemma isn’t it?
OR IS IT?!!!
My birthday is coming up.
I’m going to ask you lovely submissive men for a present.
Seriously, I am.
I want us to create something together. Yes, you and me dear readers.
It’s no secret that I enjoy the pretty: I think submissive men are sexy as hell, and I think that hotness can be found in many … Continue Reading
Defensiveness and trust
There is a line between defensiveness and trust that oddly often feels ugly to me.
I don’t expect a stranger to trust me. That’s ludicrous. But I expect a potential partner to come to me with an open heart and willingness to speak to me without the expectation that I want to do him harm in some way.
I have spoken to some men who are constantly defensive about me ‘taking too much’ or ‘crossing … Continue Reading
Shhh… no telling
I am a little cautious about cautiously mentioning in a tentatively cautious way that the ‘interesting man who I am enchanting’ mentioned here (that was his description, by the way, after noting that he had been referred to as ‘someone’) is turning out to be quite the thing.
It is a little dangerous to poke a stick at it here when it is such early days and may yet peter out, but it is hugely … Continue Reading
I fucking miss you
I spoke of vulnerability before… here it is:
I posted my secret here (yes, it’s old, you know, of course, that I will not reveal the difficult things until they are behind me…!).
… Continue Reading