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Reader Q&A: All over the place
I do love getting interesting questions, so thank you to those who sent them in via my Ask Me page. If I was organised, I’d do the Q&A on some kind of monthly schedule, but I’m totally not, so randomness it is!
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Hello Gorgeous,
People seem to think that because a woman is Dominant she must act in specific ways all the time. As intelligent people we both know that is not how it … Continue Reading
Happy femdom story – greg
A few months ago I got a really lovely email from a reader and he mentioned that he had been inspired by the happy femdom stories that people have shared here.
He said that he wasn’t sure if his story would fit because he and his wife started their life together as a vanilla couple and their D/s relationship evolved from there. Well of COURSE it fits (we have had two others with similar stories)! … Continue Reading
On the occasion of my not-really blog anniversary
Holy fuck, this blog is 5 years old!
Okay okay, I confess, 5 years and one month and one day because I am rubbish at keeping track of these things and forgot about it, then I realised yesterday, and couldn’t be arsed to write a post and so, here we are at 5 years, one month and one day old (I would like to point out that I could have lied about that because I … Continue Reading
Playthings
I said in my last:
I *really* wish that I enjoyed casual playthings because I think that would open up some very interesting opportunities…
I’m defining a ‘casual plaything’ as a boy who is attractive, fun, appealing, and temporary. Someone with whom a long term relationship isn’t possible for whatever reason, a short term fling who I would primarily treat like a treasured toy for a time.
Sounds great, right?
But it’s not. I … Continue Reading
Crowdsourcing my book title
I’m kind of stuck and could use some creative help.
Like every other blogger in the entire world who fancies themselves a writerly type (i.e. all of us!), I’m putting together a book.
It’s an erotica anthology comprised of true-life vignettes about female dominant/male submissive play: passion, violence, sweetness, affection, love.
If you’re familiar with the way I write, you will know exactly the sort of thing I mean (if not, here’s an example: Good … Continue Reading
Sleeping together
I don’t sleep well with another in my bed. I don’t sleep well at all for the most part. This tenuous relationship with sleep makes it precious, sacrosanct. There are few things more irritating than having my sleep interfered with.
I need to feel very comfortable with someone to want them in my bed, and if I don’t have that level of comfort, I don’t share well. I will lie there restless, unable to relax, … Continue Reading
Supporting your dominant’s dominance
Sometimes submissives ask how they can help their dominant (especially their *new* dominant) become more comfortable in her dominance.
Come here, and I will let you in on a secret…
Ssshhhh…
Ready?
Here it is:
Submit!
Seriously. Do that.
I know it sounds as if I am being cute or something, but I’m not.
Do you want to know what I probably needed most from my submissive when I was finding my feet?
- A safe