I have expectations of people I interact with, even if it’s just a friendly exchange. Those expectations vary depending on what my relationship is with them. This makes perfect sense, of course. My expectations of my boss, work colleagues, employees, of shop assistants, family members, casual acquaintances, friends etc are all slightly different.

My expectations of men, and particularly submissive men, tend towards something that could easily fall into a D/s dynamic, even if they … Continue Reading

Ending relationships is difficult and painful and horrible.

With D/s relationships, in addition to the ‘normal’ stuff, there are often questions that sit on top of the ‘relationship is over’ emotional turmoil that you are going through.

It goes without saying that everyone is different, there are no ‘rules’, and often, even if you *think* you would do one thing, when you are in the midst of it all, the approach that you thought you … Continue Reading

I asked for links to pictures of hot boys… and one of them produced something lovely (thank you, dave94… that’s two mentions in as many days!).

There are some images that just work in my head, and sometimes I am not sure why.

This one… makes me feel all swoony, even though the themes in it are kind of hit and miss to me (collar, yes; chastity, yes; chastity device, meh; PIV sex … Continue Reading

I will be hugely surprised if you haven’t seen this yet, after all, you *use* the internet and it is everywhere already, but it hits the heights of such excellence that I am reblogging it anyway. This is about the billionth time it has been reblogged, retweeted, re-WTF’ed…

Gap’s new line. It still makes me laugh!