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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #113 [Audio]

© 'Ferns Femdom Podcast' by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

This fabulous femdom podcast includes the following:

  • A big thank you to my Patreon supporters (because of course)
  • A sweet little happy femdom story (yay!)
  • Advice on getting into phone domming
  • Resources for a new Domme (tip: My non-fiction book list)
  • Should I consider a much older partner?
  • Should I seek out a pro-Domme for this fantasy?
  • How do I handle a serious issue with my long term dominant partner?
  • What do you like
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Should I pay tribute?

There are a LOT of questions everywhere all the time from new submissives asking whether paying a tribute is a normal thing when looking for a personal or love-based F/m relationship.

Why do they ask this?

Often it’s because they’ve already handed over some money to someone and instead of it leading to a meeting and the start of a beautiful relationship, it led to, you guessed it, a request for more money. Or they’ve … Continue Reading

Loves: 14
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My sent emails LV

Hello One-Line-Email-Guy-Who-Wants-Me-To-‘Use Him’-Online,

On the remote possibility that you’re open to learning.

Dominant women on these sites get a million of these emails a day from random strangers who, let’s be honest, want to wank.

A one line email from some random dude (with nothing appealing in his profile, no photos, no site activity, or any hint that he’s going to be awesome) wanting online play is not a thing that is even remotely appealing. … Continue Reading

Loves: 3
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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #108 [Audio]

© 'Ferns' Legs' by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

This femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:

  • Cut or uncut, that is the question
  • How to get my sub to be more communicative
  • My submissive doesn’t initiate, help!
  • Scammers, boo
  • A certain type of play is causing him concerns
  • How to support your vanilla partner in finding her dominance
  • Resources for beginners (spoiler: My non-fiction book list!
  • Me telling a new domme to DTMFA
  • I’m really attracted to my sub, but he wants ‘MEAN DOMME’
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Loves: 5
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Shit Ferns says #15

Random things I’ve said recently, no context.

I eat pretty healthy for someone who doesn’t cook.
For example, last night I had cheese and gherkins for dinner, soooo….

I appear to have burnt my face off

I never end up making it because I am a master fuck-arounder-er

I AM BRIGHT LIKE A BUTTERFLY, BITCH!

We got rocks thrown at us & chased by a group of men for kissing in the street

…my human

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Balance in F/m voices

It’s hard to write about the issues I have with the lines blurring between professional and lifestyle Dommes without sounding like I’m anti sex workers.

But I’m not. I think pro-Dommes are amazing.

I think skilled, ethical real-world pro dominants do an awesome and valuable job. The good ones invest considerable time, energy, and money into their craft, their spaces, their equipment and into making sure their clients get what they paid for, both physically … Continue Reading

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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #104 [Audio]

© 'Legs' photo by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

Welcome to another episode of ‘Ferns drinks champagne and talks…’ Topics include:

  • Some personal questions (about fantasies, singledom & happiness)
  • How to find a domme
  • Tips on confidence for a newbie dominant
  • Why some offers of ‘submission’ aren’t as appealing as you think they are
  • Is this abuse?
  • How to punish your submissive
  • Sissies and cuckholding, a misunderstanding
  • A porn reading
  • And more!

Fun facts:
1. Those legs in the photo ARE mine, yes and… Continue Reading

Loves: 4
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