I recently posted search terms that led people to my blog.

I didn’t mention that “Fetlife Sydney University” or some iteration of it was there a few times. I didn’t mention it because, well, it’s not funny, but I thought I would provide a community service announcement about it, to help those people out, so here it is.

Many people put some version of the following text on their Fetlife profiles:

WARNING: Sydney University

The following are my favourites of the recent searches that brought people to my blog:

• why are there a lot of femdom sites and no maledom [this one made me laugh because I imagine the searcher getting here and going ‘oh, for fuck’s sake, not ANOTHER one!?!!’]

• bdsm flesh hooks buy

• cock masturbate cum resist throb unnghh

• casual happy femdom

• gentle domme matronly

• spanking pyjama

• soap making bdsm what is

• ridiculous femdom look

• porn video

Peroxide asked some great questions in response to my post ‘Sometimes, angels sing where I talk about the incredible vulnerability that I seek from my submissive:

We’ve all got walls (some of us more than others) that we put between ourselves and everybody else. How do you know that a sub is capable willing and eager to drop them?

And let’s just say hypothetically that there was a young man, who really wanted to be

I recently completed a ‘trip map’, where you identify all the cities you have been to and they get pinned on a map.

108 cities in 38 countries.

I need to get out more.
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We have a good day today as a family. Breakfast out, eggs benedict and good coffee, shopping at a nursery for trees for the garden, some time reading, I work on some computer problems, we cook dinner together, we have champagne.

I propose a toast to my mother, who we wish was here with us, but isn’t, we touch glasses.

I sit quietly beside my father, and he cries; this from a man who I … Continue Reading