What does femdom porn look like?

Sometimes it looks like this:

It’s just not enough is it…? I know I know… so I also have this:

I can’t just leave it at that, of course… I have to TALK about it!

It’s not ‘stomach lurching, ooh must go masturbate’ porn, it’s more

– oh my, look at him…
– I love it when he tries to get up and gets jerked back by the chains…
– his face…
– the sound he makes when he gets up after being kicked…
– his expression then…
– how she grabs idly at his hair, almost affectionate…
– his exhalation (play that again, did you hear it?)…
– that view from the back, chastened, but not beaten…
– the soft moan…
– defiance…
– his low slung pants…
– the abs (didn’t need to say that did I?!)…
– the way he comes back to kneeling over and over…
– the little grunt when he gets hit upside the head…
– his position, palms up, when he says “then presto”…
– how his whole body reacts to her slap…
– did he just spit blood?…
– doubled over after she kicks him, groans…
– love those shoes…

Fuck…

He’s pretty…

It works for me because he can act, because the scene is about restraint and helplessness and suffering, because he gets hurt and endures it, because he kneels and keeps getting up to kneel again, because he’s in trouble and trying to pretend he’s not, because he makes beautiful little sounds of pain and strength, because all of that gives me enough fodder to create an entire story in my head about him that has nothing to do with what is on screen.

Except for him, he is pretty.

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11 comments

  1. The fact that you actually found this hot seems funny to me (it was sooo cheesy XD) but when I think about it, I've had really weird instances were I've watched or read or seen something that had nothing to do with kink at all but made me start thinking about it.

    “gives me enough fodder to create an entire story in my head about him that has nothing to do with what is on screen. “

    I'm glad I'm not the only one who does this. It makes me feel much more normal. (or maybe we're both just weird)

  2. Brids: “I'm glad I'm not the only one who does this. It makes me feel much more normal.”

    You sooo aren't the only one! I do think it's perfectly normal.

    “(or maybe we're both just weird)”

    *laugh* No no… it's a special talent! I put it on my resume: “Can make porn out of pretty much anything…”

    Ferns

  3. Eeeew boys

    Coug

    P.S. I dunno why but I can no longer comment here from my phone……..This displeases me

  4. “How about everyone here NOT use the word dick? It provokes my envy.”

    Ok, I am going to have to remember that.

    -MistressKimm

  5. MistressKimm: “How about everyone here NOT use the word dick? It provokes my envy.”

    *laugh* I loved that line too!

    Ferns

  6. But–most of the actual beating is done by *guys*!
    (YouTube has a lot better to offer in the women-beating-guys department, even good-looking guys.)

    So it's really all about the abs…oh, am I gonna have to hit the gym every day now? (maybe past a certain age it doesn't matter.)

    Six-packs look good on women too, you know.

    CDM

  7. As a masochistic male I find scenes like this in mainstream films infinitely hotter than ‘femdom porn’.

    I love the way you’ve analysed this scene! The sounds he makes, his pained grunts, moans & sighs, the way she grabs his hair, though it’s a cruel beating it’s strangely sensual. Her shoes! Sexy & elegant & viscous.

    Over 20 years ago, in my mid teens, I began to feel my first real stirrings of my masochistic nature unexpectedly while watching an episode of Quantum Leap, of all things. I never usually watched the show, but I caught the beginning of an episode where the hero is getting roughed up by a stocky female prison guard.

    I didn’t know what I was really experiencing back then, all I knew was that as she slammed him roughly against the wall he made grunting, sighing noises which was the most erotic thing I’d witnessed in my young life.

    This physically intimate, emotionally intense moment between woman & man, I just knew it was special to me.

    1. For me the appeal is not least because the players can ACT, like, for real. So it takes a lot of the cringeworthy cheese out of it. And while I’m not all ‘I need a story with my porn’, when there is something going on other than “bondage, thwak thwak, ooh, look at his cock” with both parties looking kind of bored and cliche, it’s infinitely hotter.

      And yes, I can imagine the appeal of that sort of scene when you are young. Interesting what sticks with us.

      Ferns

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