A second chance

The 23 year old landed back in my inbox around the beginning of May, he had had a birthday, his profile showed he was 24 now. He was a little cautious with me, but still the same articulate, curious boy. Just a little less bouncy. He’d had a couple of service experiences with different dominants in the ensuing time, […]

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Roping a cougarling

I knew he was into rope. I’d warned him that I have no skills with it, but that I was absolutely happy to learn with him if this went somewhere. In that way I’m like some ‘fantasy Domme’: kinks in and of themselves don’t interest me much, but HIS kinks do. Because that’s how I get reactions and that’s where I enjoy playing. We played some with rope this time. […]

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5 days with the cougarling

The rising sun was still low over the horizon, a warm morning, the promise of a bright day. An early swim and play in the surf. I leapt at him full force, trying to take him down in the churning water. He held me lightly, amused. Could easily lift me overhead. Playful silliness. I left the water first, […]

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Travelling

I know a lot of you are waiting for an update on the cougarling’s visit, and it’s coming. I blame him for the lack of posting: He ended up staying until pretty much 3 hours before I had to pack up and head off on the first leg of a trip overseas, and I will have NO time to myself for another couple of weeks. So you will just have to wait. I know: waiting is the WORST! In the meantime, […]

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He’s beautiful

“Do you believe me when I tell you you’re beautiful?” He pauses. Shrugs. Is uncomfortable. “I believe that you mean it when you say it…” he says finally. I nod. I mean it. Of course. I don’t say things I don’t mean. I don’t think anyone has ever told him that he’s beautiful before. It’s not how most women relate to men. […]

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The sex-voiced Texan: a photo

I had this email exchange with the sex-voiced Texan. Me: Do you have a cowboy hat? You must have one, right? Never you mind why I’m asking… Him: Of course I do…My curiosity is piqued… But I’ll just answer the question. Me: Well of course you do! :D And cowboy boots right (that’s a dumb question isn’t it?)? Him: I’m smiling right now because those questions are very particular. […]

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Shibari

NaBloWriMo[SubmissiveGuyComics has also done a ‘Shibari‘ post for our NaBloWriMo project]   This is a picture of the first time I played with rope, my ex boy kneeling patiently before me while I painstakingly followed instructions for this dragonfly sleeve. I enjoyed it well enough: time spent with my sweetheart, intense attention, an almost meditative precision, and oh my he was so pretty in rope, […]

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Men in bondage… aw yeah!

Today I discovered a German rigger whose photos are just amazing. He ties up both men and women, but his shots with men… just… oh my. Original and beautiful and and… guh! So much to love! Here’s his blog: The Art of Being Held. Go and give him some love! You’re welcome!   Oh, and if you have some fabulous sources for photos of men in bondage, […]

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