Happy femdom story – Alexandra

Alexandra is a young dominant from Greece who sent me this very sweet story of meeting and exploring BDSM with her boyfriend. I love that she has found someone she trusts to explore this with.

It makes me smile: it’s truly lovely.

Author: Alexandra

I’ll admit that I, too, am one of those little girls who read Fifty Shades of Grey and suddenly got into BDSM and all that. But actually after reading this book I started looking for sites about BDSM and found out it’s nothing like the movies or books or even porn. It’s so much better because it’s real!

Anyway last summer I moved town. I went at a small rock concert at a local cafe with a guy my age I just met and we’re friends now. There I met John, a nice boy, kinda shy but witty. Even though he didn’t talk much he knew the right things to say at the right time. We started to flirt somehow and I was very enthusiastic cause it was my first time. We continued hanging out for days, weeks and when schools started (we go to the same school yay!).

Not officially in a relationship because we were both shy to do the first move I guess. After some months we discovered that we were both interested in BDSM, he a submissive and I was a Dominant. After that it was so easier to start dating.

We take it slow and we come up with something new every time. He’s actually never seen me fully naked but I’ve seen him. All we do for now is light bondage and spanking and he calls me Mistress or Goddess when we’re alone. No one knows about this.

I really love everything about him, the way he moves and talks, that he trusts me with his insecurities and he knows mine and has won my trust, that he respects me, his lack of ego and tolerance of mine, his hesitation and shyness, anything!

And it really works although it’s only been half a year, but it’s because we’re not in a hurry and we wait until we’re both ready.

I hope I didn’t bore you. Also please forgive some mistakes :)

Have a great day <3___This post is part of an ongoing project to share happy, positive femdom relationship stories.  If you have a story and are willing to share it, please email it to me (ferns AT domme-chronicles DOT com).

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9 Comments

  1. So sweet! A really nice start to a hopefully long relationship that includes FemDom as an integral part. Sounds wonderfully open and wonderful!

  2. I loved this story. This is always how I have pictured a good relationship starting… One that starts small and grows organically, like a slowly growing vine that eventually becomes something beautiful.

  3. I’ve fantasised for ages about being in a real relationship which is also femdom. It so often seems that a femdom relationship is portrayed as being completely different from two people loving each other, and that has always puzzled and disappointed me. Porn and portrayals in mainstream movies, television and books are the main culprits, of course. Why should pegging, for example, *always* have to be about humiliation, degradation or punishment? It could be so much more in a multi-faceted relationship which happens to be grounded in femdom.

    I’m happy for Alexandra and her bf. I will keep dreaming.

    1. “It so often seems that a femdom relationship is portrayed as being completely different from two people loving each other, and that has always puzzled and disappointed me.”

      Oh gosh, me too. It’s a reason why I started my blog in the first place: to create a place that showed that people DO have happy, healthy, hot D/s relationships.

      Ferns

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