I love reading your play stories, although sometimes I think the level of violence would overwhelm me in reality. I’ve been boxing and fighting since I was young, but I don’t know how I could handle real pain in a sexual context.
Love your commitment to fitness and the whole “mens sano in corpore sano” thing. I think I’m young for you but – would you ever consider a 24 year old?
I’m glad you’re enjoying the play stories *smile*.
“…sometimes I think the level of violence would overwhelm me in reality. I’ve been boxing and fighting since I was young, but I don’t know how I could handle real pain in a sexual context.”
Well, not everyone is into pain of course, so that’s understandable. But if you WERE to experience some kind of pain play in real life, you would hopefully do it with a dominant who you can trust to manage it in a way that worked for you both. I don’t just randomly whale on a submissive boy without knowing exactly what he likes/wants/can tolerate.
And as for the pain itself, it’s very different from boxing/fighting pain. It’s kind of like when you are all hot and heavy with your vanilla partner and they bite your neck pretty hard: It might hurt, but it’s good-hurt, hot-hurt, passion-hurt and it makes you go ‘Raaawwwrrrr!!!’. BDSM play is pretty much just like that for me and mine, only magnified to the nth degree.
“Love your commitment to fitness and the whole “mens sano in corpore sano” thing.”
Thank you. And oooh Latin… nice touch!
“I think I’m young for you but – would you ever consider a 24 year old?”
*chuckle* Thank you for asking this because it is so damn sweet!
I try not to be ageist and I wrote a bit about age differences previously. I don’t just dismiss someone due to their age, but there ARE a lot of practical issues that arise when there is a large age difference. Having said that, if I was really compatible with said theoretical 24 year old, and I really liked him, and he could convince me that he was serious, I’d be willing to give it a fair shot.
Just between you and me, I *really* wish that I enjoyed casual playthings because I think that would open up some very interesting opportunities… Just sayin’.
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