References

I can’t wait to have this conversation (hasn’t happened yet…):

Him: I would really like to see some references please.

Me: Hahehaehahaeahaeha…!!

Him: ??

Me: Oh… you’re serious? Ok. No.

Him: Oh…

Me: You are just have to get to know me, over time… You know… like normal people…

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  1. “You are just have to get to know me, over time… You know… like normal people…”

    Oh dear. Funny, and sad, at the same time.

    I wonder if there'll ever be a day when people will be able to kinky, and normal, at the same time . . .

    Sir Puppington Lothian.

  2. puppy: “I wonder if there'll ever be a day when people will be able to kinky, and normal, at the same time . . .”

    Heh… Some of us will get there with perserverance and a persistent boring normalosity…

    Ferns

  3. @Miss Ferns,

    “Heh… Some of us will get there with perserverance and a persistent boring normalosity…”

    That made me chuckle.

    Sir Puppington Lothian.

  4. Secretive Slave: “I do hope he realized the treat that getting to know you would be and accepted your terms”

    *smile* You missed the part where I said I hadn't had that conversation yet, but thank you for the implicit compliment there!

    I have seen advice for newbies where experienced folks stress very seriously that if someone can't or won't provide references, they are almost certainly fakes or flakes or other f-words.

    I will be *very* interested to see what happens when someone who obviously thinks it's important enough to ask gets told 'no'. Is it a deal breaker? Do they really believe that they cannot learn enough about me all on their own and make their own decision? Is the opinion of some stranger *who I picked* worth more than their own judgement? Stay tuned… if and when I find out, I will definitely share it with you.

    Ferns

  5. Coug: “I can give you a reference Ferns :) Oh you wanted one to attract people ?”

    Ha! See, THIS is why I won't provide references… even my friends won't say nice things about me to get me laid! *laugh*

    Ferns

  6. I was thinking of the old “no but I did stay at a Holiday inn last night” comercials…

    Do you have references ?

    No but I do read Fern's blog everyday.
    ~smiles
    Steve

  7. HAHAHA.. OMG, I saw this posted somewhere just yesterday and thought the EXACT same thing. Like I'm going to hand contact info of my friends over to a total stranger. Somehow I doubt my friendships would last long.

    But then after another thread, now my response would be “Show up to a munch and you can MEET all my references! LOL

  8. Steve: “I was thinking of the old “no but I did stay at a Holiday inn last night” comercials…”

    We never got those ads, I had to go look them up… They are cute!

    “No but I do read Fern's blog everyday.”

    *laugh* … I hope that's all it takes!!

    Ferns

  9. Maggie: “HAHAHA.. OMG, I saw this posted somewhere just yesterday…”

    I assume you mean you saw something about references, NOT my writing because if someone is stealing my content, I will send all my references over there to beat them up!!! Grrrr…!!!

    “But then after another thread, now my response would be “Show up to a munch and you can MEET all my references!”

    Right! See, that would be 'meeting my friends'… just like… errrmmm… normal people…!!

    Ferns

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